When People Used Bad Words Behind You.
Assalam o alaikum
In this world we meet all kinds of people. Some are kind some are honest some are helpful and some are fake. Sadly some people pretend to be nice in front of you but when you leave they talk behind your back. They use bad words spread lies and try to break your peace. This happens with almost everyone at some point in life — and yes it happened with me too.
At first when i found out that people were saying bad things behind my back i was really hurt. I felts broken from the inside. The peoples i thoughts were my friends were actually making fun of me when k wasn’t arounds. They called me names said i was showing off and event created fakes stories about me. It was painful. I cried. I stayed quiet for days. I kept thinking What did i do wrong? Why are they saying this about me? I felt alone. But then something changed inside me. I realized something powerful _It doesn’t matter what they say. It matters what i believe.
After going through this experience I made a strong decision: I will not care about their words anymore. People can say whatever they want. That’s their habit. But i will not allow their bad words to live in my heart. I respect myself. I know my truth. I know what i do and how i treat others. If someone speaks badly abouts me without knowing me then its their problems not mine. I don’t need to explained myself to people who don’t even have the courage to say things to my face. From that day i changed my thinking. Now if someone talks behind me i just smile. I say to myself "They are behind me that’s why they talk behind me." I don’t waste my time or energy on such people anymore. Instead i spend my time with those who truly care about me.
I have learned that people will always talk. Even if you are quiet they will say “She’s proud.” If you are kind they will say “She’s fake.” If you are successful they will say “She is showing off.” So why should i try to make them happy? No matter what I do some people will never stop talking. That’s why now i live for myself. I don’t live to please others. I speak kindly i help others I pray to Allah and i focus on becoming a better person every day. I know i am not perfects but i am not bad eithers. I don’t needt everyone to like me. If someone truly loves me they will stand beside me — not behind me. They will correct me with love not with gossip. And those who speak behind my back? I leave them to Allah. He knows everything.
If you are reading this and facing the same thing please don’t feel weak. You are strong. You are good. And you don’t have to care about their words. Focus on yourself. Do what makes you happy. Improve your life. Let them talk. One day they will get tired but you will keep growing. Smile walk with confidence and leave their negativity behind. Your peace is more importants than their opinions.
I am no longer hurts by the words of peoples who don’t even know me. I have stopped crying because of fake people. Now i live my life with strength peace and a smile.
Because in the end…
I don’t care about their words. 😊
Thank you for reading my post. May Allah protect us all from jealousy lies and the pain of fake people. Ameen.
MashaAllah, your words truly touched the heart.
Every sentence in this post carries a pain we've lived through and an experience we've faced at different stages of life. What makes your message stand out is its honesty and transparency — and most importantly, the powerful transformation from pain to strength, from sorrow to inner peace.
Yes, people will talk no matter what. A kind person is called fake, a successful one is labeled arrogant, and an honest one is accused of being proud. This is a reality we face daily. But reaching the conviction that you don’t need to please people — only to please Allah and live in peace with yourself — is the peak of maturity and strength.
I truly loved your quote:
“They are behind me, that’s why they talk behind me.”
Such a simple yet powerful line. It shows a deep awareness that those who try to damage your image in secret are only reflecting their own weakness — not your truth.
May Allah keep you firm, protect your heart from all harm, and bless you with sincere friends who love you for who you are — not for what they want you to be.
Thank you for sharing such an inspiring experience. 🌿🤍
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Your kind words truly touched my heart. Thank you so much for taking the time to reads and understand my post with such depth. Your reflection means a lot to me❤️.
You're most welcome! 🌸
Your story was written with so much honesty and emotion — it was impossible not to feel it deeply. I'm truly glad my words brought you some comfort. Keep shining, stay strong, and never stop being your beautiful, authentic self. The world needs more hearts like yours. 💖✨
I agree with you and with this:
Unfortunately, we do not always in hand how we will respond if we find out those we consider our friends are lying and backstabbing. The best thing to do is to delete them out of our lives. Bad energy is the last thing we need.