Well, I can tell you that is exactly what my mother said about me before she ordered to get the dogleash (we had 3: 2 chains, one leather I had the freedom to choose one of them). Of about 60% of her vocubulary I had no idea what the meaning if those words were.
Btw I cannot say school and teachers were any better, nor the neighbourhood, child security or worse the police.
Still, I never thought it was me, no matter how hard she tried to break me and brainwash. Why not?

Who knows I am more stubborn, just found her pitiful, a dangerous person or not interesting enough to have around.

And you know what most likely the truth is? That of all things she said you were the opposite! Something for sure she couldn't stand.

Poor relationships we all have. It's hard to tell who is honest and uses us. Humanity wears a masks and some even ten. 🥴

So this is what you do. You write daily 3 thing you are good at! Make small labels and write on each of them. You will see before you know it you have a room filled with positive labels.

Telationships are always difficult. The thing is that people invest more in those they fear and their phone/bots than humans. Social skills are 0, but I can tell you if you are a good observer you will find one or two great, funny, understanding and loveable enough to invest in.

I wish you a great day dreamgayle, remember there's no need to be a copy of someone, to fulfill someone else's whishes and you are more than perfect as you are.

♥️🍀