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RE: I Am Not A Monster, And I Refuse To Become The Monster They Made Me

in Freewriters5 days ago

I have been there and, like you, no one moved a single finger and today many believe that if I write about it, I made it up.
Personally, it makes me gag if they say all parents love their children and a good beating is needed to train them (we train a dog or a horse but not children).

The idiot, the naive person, the brainless one, the monster, I heard it all and more. There's one thing I can tell you that is that you will never change in one simply because you are way too afraid that will happen,

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I'm truly sorry you had to endure such nasty words and experiences. I believe you, because I know such things happen. If we were friends back then, I think I would have run away with you.

People's indifference can be so cruel, in this case, ruining lives. It's sad that some individuals, whether parents or others, simply don't know how to be decent human beings, let alone good parents. We wouldn't treat anyone else in such a cruel manner.

Yes, it was like training animals. My father beat me as if he were fighting Mike Tyson—an adult man against a child of a few years old, punching, kicking, throwing...

I remember telling my teacher everything, and she, in turn, called my parents and told them everything. What should have been done was to involve a third party, a social worker, or someone similar. My teachers always called me stupid—a label I now realize better suited them for handling the situation so poorly.

Thank goodness I survived all that abuse, unlike the tragic cases we often see in the news.

 3 days ago 

Sounds as if we not only had the same parents but also the same teachers. Not one of them ever undertook something. Countless times I've been kicked out on the streets, of course always during winter without shoes and coat. On those rare occassions someone "let me in" they always said it was imagination and it all would be fine (no way!). Social workers? I was threatened before that person arrived and she was way too stupid to recognised a scared child. Not once she asked a question without my parents being present. They are a big joke. You know, I met that woman years later and I told her exactly what I thought of her. People like that aren't a help they only push you deeper in the shit.

I heard many teachers say how stupid I am, same for my children. The biggest joke is our IQ is way higher than theirs.

You survived, I did but there never been any justice.

Pity indeed we don't live in the same country otherwise you could have escaped with me. I am sorry to hear you had to go through to this. It's something you have to give a place and live with.

I send you a big hug!