My Life
They are alot of things that happened to me while i was in school. Yes my name is Favour currently i am a steemian and my user name is @bessie2023, currently i just finished school and i will love to tell you my secondary school life;
While I was in my JSS1 class i was very lonely, nobody to talk with because then i didn't know anything about friends, when it's time to ask questions i don't ask, if i am being asked i will feel very shy to answer the question, teacher's kept disturbing me tell me that i don't do well in school.
My parents didn't know about it, imagine if my parents knew about it, first i don't like to showcase, it not as if i wasn't intelligent, i just hate to showcase, when the complain and i was tired of each complain, i decided to show them what i can do through out my JSS1 till JSS3 i passed almost all the subject except for Basic Technology.
In my SS class i still took that mentality of my JSS1 class to SS1 class, people made friends with me, i didn't know why they made friends with me , but i over heard them saying we can "use her to get money from guys" because I was really beautiful, this words really pain me then i walk up to them and told them that "i can destroy my friends when they talk bad at my back".
They laughed at me and the bullied me i didn't fight back i told them that let me not see them in school because I will come back for them, the didn't get scared instead the laugh at me.
The next day i told my cousin's what happened, they all got angry and we went to school together in the morning, it was worse i went directly to the principal office with my cousins and I told him what happened and the principal sent for the girls my cousin's didn't hesitate one of them told me to slap the girls that were present. I slapped them each of them.
The principal didn't do anything because of the way they (cousin) were tall 🤣🤣. He was scared of them. From that day on ward i told them that i am not the same person as i was when i came to this school. My cousin's then told me if I want to be a strong kid i should learn how to fight back when i am being bullied.
During my SS1 class i had only 1trusted friend but in the whole school i had more than 300 friends. When I was being transferred to another school that is is green Pears international school there i meet alot of steemians where @fortwis09, @realitytrend, and @eveetim told me alot about steemit and then my mentor was @okere-blessing.
That was so nice and I have really observed that in some schools let me say in UYO they really have lot of bullies at school maybe if you don't see it here you could see it in bigger schools. My junior secondary school life Jss3, was filled with lots of bullies who bullied me and seriously I didn't do anything about that, just there being shy what I did was to tell my sis, my parents and cry that was all, and the worst thing was that i couldn't fight for myself I had to call my sis 😆😆😆but when I started having full trust I had the courage to stand up for my self, not depending on anybody and from there I started fighting for myself. Like now in my school I am a big girl ooo, no try me if not you go collect 😆😆😆😆.