@curcuma Maybe I'm a masochist 😅 I personally chose to have all 4 instead of just 2 as I don't support abortion as a way into birth control. I think it's a basic function of females, and of course, they have every right to what to do with their body.

I think not only in East Asia, all over the world are facing the same issue, women have to endure all this man-boy that their mother passed on to them as a husband, working-class and below family usually and the majority like this, as the rich couple can afford housekeeper or nannies to assist with the house chores or babysitting but working-class most of them couldn't afford especially if only one source of income in the family.

If you're male, your lady would be the lucky one as you aware of this issue and don't want to be part of it, and if you're female I wish you all the best in finding the male partner that wants to have that DINK lifestyle with you 😊