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RE: MOURNING AS A PSYCHOLOGICAL PROCESS// FACING THE STAGE OF ACCEPTANCE
Hello Professor Miladis @sidalim88, in my life I have adopted the position of not giving condolences to people who go through this frustrating and heartbreaking stage in people's lives.
I assume it in this way, because it is a "pain that only the sufferer feels" and condolences in my opinion, rather than words of encouragement is like reinforcing even more the reality (pain) that we are living on the loss of a loved one.
Perhaps my posture has been from my own experience, hence the philosophy I have adopted. Very entertaining article that does not allow us to understand the stages we are going through in the face of this tragic moment.
Greetings...
Greetings @madridbg, it is difficult to give or look for a word of encouragement or to calm the pain left by the loss of a loved one. There are people who only give condolences for complying with something to accompany the affected person, but sometimes they do not feel any pain about it.