Those in power benefit from this misery. The "culture' here was created by propaganda. We have used military like propaganda since the industrial age to brainwash US citizens into being modern day slaves. There's nothing wrong with you. You are just surrounded by assholes. Not your fault. My husband is European and I am very thankful to have him to slow me down and to encourage me not to work my life away. Quantity over quality is the standard here in the good old USA.