王志文說:
王志文說:
“別去操心他人,
哪怕是你的親人,
多年形成的認知,
並非你隻言片語能喚醒的,
人難以被叫醒,
唯有痛了才會醒。
管他人一分,
人家就會恨你一分。
故而,
莫管他人,多管好自身。”
這個世界上最難的兩件事情,
一是把別人的錢放進
自己的口袋,
二是把自己的思想裝進
別人的腦袋。
第一件事情觸及別人的利益,
第二件事情觸及別人的靈魂。
現實生活中,人性使然,
沒有人願意被說教,
沒有人希望要別人來
教他做事做人。
不要介入別人的因果,
不要多管閒事,
每個人都有每個人要修行的地方,
每個人都有每個人嘅因果。
讓自己做自己,讓他人做他人。
因為你同情誰,
就可能會背負誰嘅命運,
可憐誰,
可能就會肩負誰嘅坎坷。
“什麼是高級修養?”
“不刨根問底,不明知故問,
不刻意揭穿。”
一個很殘忍嘅真相:
“人們普遍不喜歡身邊有人
比他懂得更多。
當你嘅話超出咗他嘅認知,
即使你講得再正確,
他都不太願意接受你嘅觀點。”
佛說:
“凡是勸不動,攔不住嘅,
那就是命。
但凡有一個人拼死都不聽勸,
說明呢條彎路,
他必須得走,
呢個劫,他必須得渡,
生命中嘅呢節課,他必須得學。
因為對錘子而言,
眼中只有釘子。
所以請放下助人情結,
尊重他人命運,
幫唔到嘅,不如隨緣。
起心動念皆是因,
當下所受皆是果,
世人不知有因果,
因果何曾繞過誰。
人生之苦,苦在執著;
人生之難,難在放下。
一念執著,萬般皆苦;
一念放下,便是重生。
記住,成年人嘅世界,
沒有篩選,沒有教育,
只有選擇。
爛泥爛得好好嘅,
你非要給他扶上牆;
鹹魚躺得好好嘅,
你非要給他翻個身;
一塊朽木,你非要給他雕成才。
別咁樣,
一定要克制自己
去糾正別人嘅慾望。
每個人都有自己嘅因果,
個人因果個人了,
個人緣分個人圓。
天雨雖大,不潤無根之草;
道法雖寬,只渡有緣之人。
Wang Zhiwen icon said:
"Don't worry about others,
Even if they are your relatives.
The perception formed over the years
Cannot be awakened by just a few words from you.
It's hard to wake a person up.
Only when they feel pain will they come to their senses.
If you meddle in others' affairs a bit,
They will resent you a bit.
Therefore,
Don't meddle in others' affairs. Take good care of yourself instead."
The two most difficult things in the world are:
One is to put others' money into your own pocket.
The other is to put your own thoughts into others' heads.
The first thing touches on others' interests.
The second thing touches on others' souls.
In real life, due to human nature,
No one wants to be lectured to.
No one hopes that others will teach them how to do things and be a person.
Don't get involved in others' karma.
Don't meddle in other people's business.
Everyone has their own place to cultivate themselves.
Everyone has their own karma.
Let yourself be yourself and let others be themselves.
Because if you sympathize with someone,
You may bear their fate.
If you pity someone,
You may shoulder their hardships.
"What is advanced self - cultivation?"
"Don't dig deep for the truth, don't ask knowingly,
Don't deliberately expose others."
A very cruel truth:
"People generally don't like to have someone around them who knows more than they do.
When what you say goes beyond their perception,
Even if you are absolutely right,
They are not very willing to accept your point of view."
The Buddha said:
"Those who can't be persuaded or stopped, that's their fate.
Whenever there is someone who refuses to listen no matter what,
It means that they have to take this detour.
They have to go through this disaster.
They have to take this lesson in life.
Because for a hammer icon,
All it sees are nails.
So please let go of your desire to help others.
Respect others' fates.
If you can't help, it's better to let things take their course.
Every thought and impulse is a cause.
What you are experiencing now is the result.
People don't know about karma, but karma never bypasses anyone.
The pain in life lies in being persistent.
The difficulty in life lies in letting go.
One persistent thought brings all kinds of sufferings.
Letting go with one thought means rebirth.
Remember, in the adult world,
There is no screening, no education,
Only choices.
If the mud is lying there just fine,
You insist on plastering it on the wall.
If the salted fish is lying there comfortably,
You insist on turning it over.
If it's just a piece of rotten wood,
You insist on carving it into something useful.
Don't do that.
You must restrain your desire to correct others.
Everyone has their own karma.
One should settle their own karma and fulfill their own destiny.
Although the rain from the sky is vast, it won't moisten the grass without roots.
Although the Dharma is broad, it only saves those with a predestined relationship.
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