Contest: Letting Go And Healing

Hello everyone 🌸 !

My dear steemian fellows! How are you all I hope u are fine . I am @sedabatool . I've been on Steemit for a long time because I was busy with my papers and I couldn't post due to my studies, but now I'll post regularly.Today I participate in the contest that is organized by "@anasuleidy".The topic of contest that is "Contest:Letting Go And Healing".It's amazing contest.so, without wastage of time let's start!

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Have you ever clung to someone, something, a thing, a place, or a moment? And if so, what were the reasons that led you to that?

Yes in my life I have cling with my friend that is in school. I have had many experiences in my life, but this was probably the worst experience of my life. I met him in eighth grade and we became friends.I have never made any friends in my life because I think that if we make friends and then they leave us, it makes a person very sad, but I made a friend in this class.

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But I wanted to have an experience, so I made a friend, but my sister forbade me from doing that, but maybe I made one because my time would be well spent and there should be someone in our lives who we love and stay with us.

I made friends so that I wouldn't feel lonely in class, but my friend left me and I had a very bad experience and I was very sad😔.

What did you rely on or what motivated you to let go of what you were holding onto?

I had the most trust in my mother, and when my friend left me, she was the one who took care of me and explained to me that a person should do what they love, not for anyone, even if it's a friend.When I needed my friend the most, she left me.but I realized that I think friendship is not good thing but not in all cases friends are good but not mine.

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But at this time my mother become my strength and courage . She motivate me and give me trust about good people's because I think on this time that all person's are fake like double-face but she denied that I am wrong .

Based on your experience, can you describe whether you felt healed after letting go of what you were holding on to? Clearly describe that experience after letting go.

When that girl left me, I had a hard time controlling myself. I used to cheat a lot, but then I thought maybe her leaving me was a big lesson for me.And instead of being set, I should learn from it and I should move on with my life.I learned from him that we should love ourselves and not those people because when they leave, a person feels very sad.

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You should love yourself and love your parents.After leaving him, I started feeling better and I liked my decision because I am right.

Do you think it's possible to be happy while clinging to someone or something? Or do you think that to be happy, you need to know how to let go of things or people that aren't good for you?

I believe that it's not necessary to live happy with people's.We don't need people in our lives to be happy. If we love ourselves, we can be very happy and feel at peace in our lives. We love our parents our siblings and not be depressed with our past rather we move on in our life for achievingany things 🙂.

Do you find it easier or more beneficial to let go or hold on to someone or something?

It is beneficial for us to leave someone who is not sincerely because if we stick with them and leave them after a long time, we become emotionally attached to them and then if they leave, we become very sad.so I think it's best to leave them . At some point we have to leave these people and we move on and enjoy our life with peace and harmony, enjoy every moment with our self .

I invited my friends to participate in this wonderful contest :

@hudamalik20 , @santi06 , @paholags

With Best Regards 💕

@syedabatool💐

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