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my mother literally just did that because she has no formal education. I was lost back then and just follow the herd and confuse about who I am until my late 20s, then I discovered myself after all those confusion. I wish it could be more earlier than that. But I can see it now why I have to go through those confusion and lost in order to have awareness that I have on myself in the presence. So I understand and can empathize their situation too, because I been there and know the feelings myself. Thank you for your attention and sharing your perception about this.