agree. I'm needed here but here I am not me.... I'm the 'daughter, caregiver, counselor and so on......... and there really is not anyone here for me to talk to though thank God for skype at night with Hubby but still by the time he calls I'm so tired I just listen to him talk...... not really the same....

but will miss her and worry about her when I get home too...... but all one can do is what I am.

thanks for your great comment. I read it in your voice :D