It really was a shame it played out the way it did. This one guy wants control. He uses the excuse that he and his family have been hurt before, and now he has to approve of everything and everyone or he is out. I have met with him several times for many hours each time, and he still will not "allow" his wife and son to be introduced to our group. Sadly, his youngest is 17, goes to public school and is joining the military with his fathers blessing, but we are scary to be around. These friends were 100 yards away from us for 8 days, and we didn't spend any real time with them...about 5 hours total, plus an afternoon fishing. Sometimes they would barely wave to us, and normally we drive nearly an hour each way, sometimes multiple times a week, just to hang out.