The September contest #1 sduttaskitchen | Can a best friend become a good life partner?

Greetings to everyone in the Incredible India Community,
A big thank you to @sduttaskitchen for bringing us this thoughtful contest. The theme is one that touches every heart, because at some point in life, we all wonder: Is it possible for a best friend to become the perfect life partner?

From my own opinion, yes best friends can be a good life partner, from the word best that means they are already good, for someone to become your best friend that's means you have examine him/her very well and fully welcome the person in your life.

Meaning of Friendship

Friendship is a bond of trust, care, and mutual understanding between two people. It is not built on blood ties but on choice. A true friend is someone you can laugh with, cry with, share secrets with, and rely on in both good and bad times. Friendship is often free of conditions, it is about being there for each other without expecting rewards.

Meaning of Marriage

Marriage, on the other hand, is a lifelong union of two individuals who commit to sharing love, responsibilities, and a future together. Unlike friendship, marriage involves legal, emotional, and social responsibilities. It is not just about companionship, but also about building a family, managing challenges, and standing by each other through every phase of life.

At the stage of friendship the bond have already been built, they have accepted each other for whom they are, the strong connection is already in existence, this stage you can predict what the other person is up to, when he or her is happy or sad, you know what's makes your partner happy and angry, you have already know his/her likes and dislikes, his/her favorite food, movies, games etc, you have studied the person intensively, he or she is no longer a stranger, this stage you are very free to talk to the person anytime, anything that's the communication is already there, you gist laugh, play with your partner, call and disturb him anytime.

Understanding, the both friends have understand themselves very, they have accepted even the weakest part of each other, they have know your weakness and strength. they have tolerance between each other and endurance and marriage can't work without understanding, tolerance and endurance.

The two parties has understand their purpose and destination, and it will favour them more if they have the same or similar purpose in life, they have share their dreams and how to achieve it together.

Do you believe Friendship and becoming life partners are distinct? How?

Yes, friendship and life partnership are distinct. Friendship is based on companionship, fun, and mutual support without heavy obligations. Marriage or life partnership goes deeper, demanding responsibility, commitment, and long-term goals. While friendship can end with fewer consequences, marriage ties two lives together socially, emotionally, and sometimes legally.

Pros of accepting a friend as a life partner

Choosing a best friend as a life partner means building on trust, honesty, and shared history. You already know each other’s strengths and weakness, making communication easier. Emotional safety and deep understanding create a strong foundation for love, reducing the struggles that often come with starting relationships afresh.

   ***True life story*** 

Sammy and Jimmy are two best friends in the university, in the same department both of them are from a poor background hoping for a better future, they do things in common and cooperate, every one in the campus jealous them because of that special bond, they trek to school under sun and rain, sleep on empty stomach, they share even the smallest food, both of them are very brilliant and top performing student in their department, and they have the same passion, goals, dreams and almost the same purpose in life, they never thought of marrying themselves when they are in the university, when they graduate everyone started a new Life, they realize that no one can love them, like they have love themselves or understand them very well, they come together and marry, their marriage is one of the best marriage in town because they have build the bond already.

Conclusion

In my view, the best relationships are built on friendship first. A best friend can indeed become a wonderful life partner

At the end of the day, love without friendship feels incomplete, but friendship that blossoms into love can be one of the most beautiful journeys of life.

I also want to invite @mercybliss @tempestinyang and @jemilatbuhari to participate in this contest.

Thank you for going through my post and blog. I hope to get feedback