The September contest #1 sduttaskitchen| Can a best friend become a good life partner?

My response to the @MeraIndia contest - The September contest #1 sduttaskitchen| Can a best friend become a good life partner? hosted by @sduttaskitchen

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A life partner should be a person with who we can share anything and everything, because as life passes by and physical attraction gets lesser and lesser then what matters is the bond that the partners share with each other which allows them to express themselves freely to each other.

Do you think a best friend can become a good life partner? I absolutely believe this that a best friend can become a good life partner and also the reverse. A partner can become a best friend. A best relationship is the one which is transparent and you can only be very transparent with your best friend, so when a best friend becomes your life partner it is like having the most understanding person by your side in life.

Your best friend understands your strengths and weaknesses very well and hence will not be very judgmental, and it will be mutual, if you are marrying your best friend , that person is also marrying Her's or his best friend, so it goes both ways. The understanding between the two will be perfect. And I also believe that the relationship will be very playful, and not become a very serious one where communication sometimes become a barrier.

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Do you believe Friendship and becoming life partners are distinct? - Yes, it is distinct to some extent, because when you get married to anyone, it's not only about that person, a lot of things get added up here. Like the family also comes in the picture. But what I believe is that with all the differences also the understanding between the 2 partners will be better and they will have a mutual work around towards their problems. Friendship only has one phase of life, which is just being friends, whereas a marriage has different phases of life, you become parents, you become son or daughter-in-law of someone and with that there are new set of expectations from one another. And a good friend will understand that well.

Marriage and friendship are two different things but they can beautifully weave into one another and create a very special relationship of trust and compassion. There will be understanding, there will be reasoning and moreover there will be compassion for one another.

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Share some pros and cons if one accepts a friend as a life partner! It would be nice to have a best friend as a life partner and at the same time it cannot go very well in the relationship of marriage. Your best friend knows almost all your secrets, which can become a hindrance in the relationship. There is practically nothing hidden from one another, but then I believe that a marriage should be such where you do not feel a need to hide anything from your partner. The other problem area can be of taking each other granted, because the comfort level is so much that one may not realize their boundaries.

I personally believe that it is good to have your best friend as your life partner, provided the maturity level of both the partners is same. The chemistry will be much better then getting married to someone you barely know.

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I will like to invite @jyoti-thelight, @jaynie and @ahlawat to join the contest

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