It is so amazing to participate in September contest #1 @sduttaskitchen | Can a best friend become a good life partner

Greetings steemians

I am realy excited to take part in the September Contest #1 hosted by @sduttaskitchen in Incredible kitchen.The topic is very intersting and it touch my heart in many ways

Can a best frend also become a good life partner??

My thoughts about friendship

Since childhood I always belived that a true friend is like a gift of life A best friend is not only the person who makes you laugh but also the one who stands by you in your hardest moments You can tell them your secrets your pain your silly dreams and they will never juge you They listen without complain and they advice without selfishness

For me friendship is build on honesty loyalty and trust and these three things are also the same stones on which a happy marriage is made So sometimes I ask myself why not a best friend as a life partner If the person already knows my weakness my strengths my moods then it seems easier to live with them forever

Can a best frend become life partner

I say yes it is very possible Many happy couples in the world started first as friends They shared years of jokes late night talks and simple moments Then slowly they realized they were already living like partners supporting each other in every way

But it is also not always smooth A life partner is more than a friend because the bond carries responsibility financial decissions family matters and emotional struggles It is not only about laughing together but also about facing storms side by side

Difference between friendship and life partnership

Friendship means freedom You are not bound by rules You can fight and still be fine You can dissapear for days and then come back and laugh again

Life partnership means committement It means if you fight you must solve it If you dissapear it hurts deeply If you stay silent it can break the home

So both are similar yet very different

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Pros of choosing a best frend as life partner

• You already know each others nature very well
• You share trust and honesty without mask
• You feel comfortable and safe with them
• Old memories become foundation of future happyness
• Less fear because you are already tested the bond

Cons of choosing a best frend as life partner

● If relation fails the friendship may be lost forever
● Too much familiarity sometimes takes away the charm
● Life responsibilties can creat pressure which was not there in friendship
● Misunderstanding can damage both friendship and partnership together

In my heart I belive the best love is when friendship and partnership walk together A husband or wife who is also your best frend will make your journey of life more smooth and full of joy They already know how to calm you when you are angry and how to cheer you when you are sad

Still it requires maturity If both people accept the new responsibilities of marriage while keeping the old spirit of friendship then it becomes a beautiful story

So yes I truly belive a best friend can be a perfect life partner

Finally, I am inviting my friends to participate in this contest
@mrnazrul
@laurent85
@mominashahkir