The September contest #1 sduttaskitchen| Can a best friend become a good life partner
Assalam-o-Aliakum Friends.
So let's start.🍀
❤.Do you think a best friend can become a good life partner? Your viewpoint!
Everyone's point of view will be different, just like mine is different from everyone else's, but my point may be free, not to be different from what many people have.Because as far as I know, any relationship starts with friendship. There are many relationships that start with friendship and then turn into love and then those people become life partners. In my opinion, the person who is best for you is the one who is your friend. Who do we call a friend? Now the most important question is this. This does not mean that any person becomes your friend. There are categories of people to be your friend. You decide what kind of friend you should be. A friend is someone who supports you in every ups and downs, in bad times, in good times. Then you also start to like that person. It is a part of life. A person also needs someone to support him to save his life.
That's why I think the person who is your friend, and if he is your best friend, can also be your best life partner, and the best life partner is the one with whom you can talk about your heart, with whom you can open your heart without being afraid of what they think of you.
❤.Do you believe Friendship and becoming life partners are distinct? How?
No, it is not like that at all. I do not even think of this in my mind. I say that friendship and relationship are one and the same. Rather, I will describe the same thing. When we make friends, what do we keep in mind? A person who can hide our secrets, comfort my heart, or help me in every good and bad time. And now what we want in life partner?..............Exactly the same things. That he should be a person who supports me, respect me, loves me, comfort my heart and help me in good and bad times.Then how can these two things be separate?
This means that , If your friend is very good, then your life is not less than everyone, but if that friend of yours does not fit well into any category, then I don't think that he can be yours . Then the time spent with him outside will be full of difficulties and you will not enjoy living life at all. But I will say that if you are spending your life with your life partner and he is your best friend, then I tell you that the fun of living life will not come anywhere because with him you can go crazy like this, remember your childhood and do all the crazy things that you have never done with anyone.
❤.Share some pros and cons if one accepts a friend as a life partner!
Pros.
If we talk about the benefits, then the benefits are very many, such as you don't have to tell the next person what environment I am used to or what environment I live in. He/she already knows you, so he/she knows all your comforts and dislikes better. So he makes many things easier for you. And secondly, you don't find it so difficult to adjust to his family. You already know that a person is with you who knows you better than anyone else and understands you.
You don't find your life too difficult. You already know this person, so everything isn't that difficult for you. You don't need to build a new relationship.
Cons.
The biggest loss is when two people are in a friendship and after that they want to take their relationship to the next step, if that too is not successful, then there is no friendship left between them, then they are not friends anymore. It also happens that if their families are already involved, then after that their families also do not like to see each other and then their differences increase to a considerable extent, so it means that you lose a relationship and also lose a friend along with it.