How did any man come to "own" any thing on this planet without first taking the said thing via use of force?

Nope.

Arriving as an animal does and setting up a home, lair, den, abode.

Force HAS (but not in all cases) been used to take such places from other people. Yet I have not condoned that.

I also don't base my reality of now on the bad things done in the past which ultimately are irrelevant unless you own a time machine and can go back and change it.

Then if I pick up a stone and start etching art in it. Generally that is MY creation, and my property. Again no force involved. Force is involved when someone such as yourself thinks it is okay for you to come take it from me because it was not my property. Hell I may not have been done with what I was doing to it. It doesn't matter.

Nature will show you how well that works out. It's imaginary fantasy.