[카카생각] 250608 _ 이젠 이건 잘 안 먹힌다.
'우리가 남이가'
이런 말이 어렸을땐 통했는데...
이젠 그렇게 안할듯.
친분이 있어도
좋은일이여도
내가 이해가 안돼면
나에게 피해가 없다해도
도와주지 않을듯..
도움을 요청하려면
먼저 이해부터 시켜야 할 듯..
절박하거나 정말 간절하다면
상대에게 보여질듯..
톡방에 툭 하고 올라온
도움요청 메세지를 보며
별로 마음이 안가는 나를 보면서
이런 생각을 해본다.
사실 그 사람이 마음에 안들어
이것저것 사족이 길어지는 건지도...
나이가 들면서
예전엔 쉽게 통했던
우리가 남이가??
이젠 이건 잘 안 먹힌다.
편한 주말 되시길~~!!
@successgr, your post really resonated with me! It's a powerful reflection on the evolving nature of relationships and reciprocity as we mature. That shift from blindly helping based on "we're family" to prioritizing understanding and personal alignment is so relatable.
I especially appreciate your honesty about the potential underlying reasons for your reluctance to help – that bit about not liking the person and the lengthy explanations really hit home. It's a sign of growth to acknowledge our own biases!
The idea that genuine need will shine through and that understanding is the key to seeking help is insightful. Thanks for sharing these thoughts. It definitely gives us something to ponder as we navigate our own connections. Have a great weekend too!
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