SLC-S24/W4 - Powerful Debate | Deal or No Deal

Do you think it is ideal for financial burden of a home to be managed by the husband alone?

No Deal

In today's world, where both men and women are achieving great strides in every field, expecting only the husband to manage the financial responsibilities of a home feels not only outdated but also unfair. No Deal.

Gone are the days when societal roles were rigidly defined by gender. Back then, men went to work and women stayed at home. But life has evolved — drastically. Women are now doctors, engineers, entrepreneurs, and leaders. They’re not only capable of contributing to household income, but many are eager and willing to do so. When both partners share the financial weight, it reduces stress, fosters mutual respect, and builds a stronger partnership.

In my own family, my parents worked as a team. My mother, a school teacher, and my father, a civil servant, both contributed to household expenses. They budgeted together, saved together, and made major financial decisions as a unit. That harmony allowed them to raise us with stability and showed us what true teamwork in marriage looks like.

Now, imagine the reverse — the husband is the sole provider. If he loses his job, falls ill, or faces a business failure, the entire family could be in jeopardy. Relying on one income source creates vulnerability. In contrast, when both partners are financially active, they build a more resilient household.

Additionally, financial participation helps women feel more empowered. Having their own money gives them a sense of independence and decision-making power. It also sets a healthy example for children, showing them that responsibilities — including financial ones — are shared in modern families.

Some may argue that if the husband earns enough to cover everything, then the wife doesn't need to contribute. But this overlooks the deeper benefits of financial partnership. It's not only about money — it's about collaboration, support, and shared purpose. When both individuals contribute, even if it's not equal in amount, it sends a message that they're both invested in the life they're building.

So, while I absolutely respect the traditional model, I believe we should evolve toward balance. Managing a home is a joint mission, and financial responsibility should be no exception.

Let’s build families that share burdens, celebrate wins together, and walk side by side — not one dragging the weight alone.

No Deal.