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RE: Let's Talk Tuesdays : Maintaining Friendships

Being the semi hermit type, I find that maintaining relationships is sometimes difficult. I tend to get wrapped up in my own little world and not spend much time with other people. I've been trying to keep up with a couple of friendships because I find them to be valuable to me to have as a friend. Quite a few people have come and gone in my life, but not that many were really friends so much as acquaintances, and so many of them were friends because of working at the same job. After I quit, or they quit, the friendship just sort of drifted away. I suppose that's not all that unusual.

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I feel like the hermit-ish type as well, while also raising these kiddos so I'm not completely alone... but nevertheless, not really maintaining irl friendships. I do enjoy the online friendships I've formed so far. I feel like some friends are there for a season and that's okay.

As someone who enjoys solice, I've had friends come and go as they please. I was always that disposable friend anyways lol 😂 I guess that's what happens when I moved every two or so years before and after the military. I feel like it's hard for me to make friends when I'm living somewhere where I feel out of place and mainly chosen out of financial reasons and not for the right reasons. Maybe one day I'll find the right community for me where I can easily make friends as well as maintain them if need be. We shall see.

For now, I'm pretty happy with the online friendships, they're just as real to me even if I'm not so vocal still. Maybe I should make this 'Let's Talk Tuesdays' series into vlog posts so I'm not just communicating solely through text.