all we can do is the best we can with the tools we have available to us :) it may take us a while to realize what is good and bad for us but once we do.... it up to us to draw the lines in the sand of what we take from others and what we dont.

its a harsh world out there, there is nothing wrong with taking care of ourselves at the expense of others "feelings" about us, self care is far more important than pleasing others... in my humble opinion ;) much love