Yea .... i think it has more to do with luck.... some people have good luck others bad luck .... it’s not based on one thing or another ... it’s not our decisions alone , or timing , or anything else ... some people are lucky ... others aren’t... someone once told me ... that it’s 20 percent what happens to us and 80 percent how we react to it .... but sometimes we can’t react the way we should. Or there is no positive way to react to some of the things that happen to us . Cancer sucks... weather you go thru treatment.... survive it ... or it’s terminal ... either way it really sucks big time. How’s Brian doing ? And how are you doing ? I’ve been to some degree on both ends ... the patient and having a loved one be a patient. I don’t know which one is harder .