I've been going through a bit of confusion as to how I think of myself lately too. Which I would never have pegged myself to experience. Life is crazy like that, you never know what the next phase of life holds for you. Living consciously is so much harder than it sounds. One thing that has given me happiness lately is to just stop and feel that still, calm person that is inside me - the one that has always been there. That is the only real part, I think. The rest changes with the times and the influences a bit, but is ultimately controlled by that one central, calm place that is the authentic you. I'm rambling so I'm not sure any of that made sense :)