....ooooh, I did NOT mean the rebirth of anything like PHC... my days of squandering my time and energy are OVER, lol! I just meant "community" as in a growing number of people.

Thank you for that info - I was actually looking at the communities here yesterday and "World of Xpilar" did strike me as one of the more positive, hence I posted there this morning - but I appreciate the validation, because yes... all very different now, so in effect I am a total babe in the woods haha!!!

to be so "precious" as to think your site can have "exclusivity" is social suicide unless you're paying me a salary!

BINGO, lol!