Is there a song that we could have chosen ourselves at some point in this life?

Now that you say it, I’m actually wondering how my favorite songs ever became my favorites… were they really mine, or just choices I picked up because they were already playing around me? 🤔 You’ve given me something worth pondering.

And yes, they say time is the best healer. It’s not exactly new, but somehow it’s the only thing that keeps proving itself right. Maybe it’s not that time erases anything, it just softens the sharp edges, makes the same thought less intrusive, less loud. Almost like turning down the volume of that song we never asked for. Hehe

In a way, I think what you’re doing, giving yourself time and letting things settle, is also a choice, just a quieter one. Not about wishing for things, but about allowing life to carry you to a place where the weight feels lighter.