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RE: Why Do We Treat Physical Illness With Care and Compassion but Ignore or Belittle Depression and Other Mental Health Symptoms?
Nicely put you sound like your a good energy :). She does tarot too. She ended it said she need to live alone and could not share her space with my energy. Yet she said she still loves me and wanted us to live apart but still be associated with each other. I hope she pulls herself out I feel she needs reflection time for herself and renew her energies. :)
I won't lie, this is the first time that I have been where I had an option. I was in a loveless marriage for years - ike half of my life. I have been with my partner now for 2/5, a little more than 2 years living together and I didn't realize that I shuold have had more time on my own between my divorce and dating. But we met and we moved quickly. I tried to bolt and give him his space. He viewed it as me breaking up with him, which I wasn't. So, I am here. I am glad I have stayed. I love him and working things out with him in my life is easier with him here. I am not used to people being accommodating or understanding what I have been through in my life. He tries and even though he hasn't been in my shoes, he seems to get it. I would have bolted had he let me though. It sounds as though she is still allowing a place for you in her life. That is all you can do is be there and be understanding of who she is and her process. It sounds like you are doing that :) I wish you the best of luck. Us wanderlusting gypsy types can be hard on the soul but it is my experience that our love is fierce. <3 Thank you for sharing. In a way, it is nice to know I am not the only one. I tend to close myself off, not leave the house etc when I am like this. Since my mom died I have been weird... then my dogs ran away and I fell apart. I know it is not going to hurt this bad forever - I just have the feels and they are crushing sometimes. It is hard to remember, in the moment that we all feel like this at times.
Glad your doing well now I hold out hope she will prosper soon. A lot of it was to do with losing our baby, she decided she didn’t want to try again. As she already had he little boy. She could not live with the fact that she might stop me having children, I said I would be ok and get used to it bla bla. But she would accepted it then I started to feel maybe she only try to have another to make me happy (there were complications and she had been told not to try again, I did not know how serious it was).
Then this drove a wedge between us and it was downhill from there. She taught me a lot and like you, well sounds like the same sort of person. Unfortunately she is very lost and I can’t help her anymore. Maybe I have let her down but I tried and I can’t see her all the time as it hurts, she's thinks I’m trying to move on and find someone else. Anyways happy days were both sorting things out and in time we will be able to laugh about it all :)