to be loved

Every human being seeks to be loved among people, earns their love and affection, but he usually turns some of his actions without achieving this. These actions were highlighted by Time magazine, which published a set of tips for Robin Derrick, head of the FBI's Behavior Analysis Program, which we present to you as follows: 1 - Avoid judgment on others Rubin advises that we listen, listen to others, But without the release of judgments, especially negative ones, no one wants to be evaluated or judged by others, and studies indicate that people feel more pleasure talking about themselves, so try to praise what they say to earn their love. 2 - Curbing the internal ego Many try hard to prove that others are wrong, but the offensive attitude towards anyone, even if it is not right to take a defensive position and arise differences that lead to the development of social relations. So try to discuss any topic logically and without prejudice to your thoughts and personal opinions. 3 - Learn how to listen well Learn to listen carefully to what others say, by focusing on what they say now, without thinking what you will say later, listening to the opportunity to understand everything that is said, and try not to interrupt or criticize, nor With some head gestures and phrases that show you're listening well to your event. 4. Asking the right questions When you are talking to someone, try to choose the right questions that turn into a friendly dialogue, keep away from embarrassing questions that cause distress to others. Asking for advice gives others confidence and makes them more interested in talking to you. 5 - Give your child a sense of comfort Try not to burden the person you talk to, for example when you meet him at the restaurant or visit him at home, show him that you do not have a lot of time to stay, it may need some rest, and better to ask before Everything if he has time to sit with you, you give him the option without pressing him. 6 - Body language Body language is one of the most important factors that help to win the hearts of others, a smile above all is a must to generate confidence and a sense of familiarity, and avoid movements that show that you are tense like lifting the eyebrow or pressure on the lips, and try to be your movements Simple and comfort in others. 7 - Dealing with a person you do not trust Although these tips teach you how to be loved by others, but at the same time you must know the palm of dealing with someone you do not trust, first of all you must understand the goal that seeks, and does not appear Have any kind of weakness or lack of experience, at the same time avoid being aggressive, and tried to end the meeting in a friendly manner without causing any kind of hatred.