Love and Family

Love is the most beautiful relationship with our family and at the same time I feel it is the most challenging relationship with family. There are times when we have major differences with our very immediate family members and yet we cannot do anything about it. Between me and hubby also there are things which we do not agree on, we have our differences and at times it feels like if not for him, I would never tolerate some of his habits and ways with anyone else. But it's just love that keeps it going.

My son is a grown-up man now and there are times when we also fight, and some of his ways are beyond my tolerance limit, but I cannot still give up on him. I feel sometimes that Love is beautiful and at the same time very brutal. It makes us do things which we may not want to. In the name of Love people can kill each other, what kind of Love is that. Sometimes I find both my boys so annoying and I even tell them I do not love them at all, and they make fun of me, saying ok go and love someone else and then come back to us crying. I am sure I will do that only. This is a little humor situation but on a serious note love can be very challenging at times.

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Besides my hubby and son, my sister and mother are closest to me. In my growing up I have never had a very good relationship with my mother and yet I cannot give up on her. Be it whatever, I still feel a lot of love for her, and I cannot imagine my life without her. The people we love the most can be the most demanding and challenging to handle. There are times when we feel like we cannot leave them, neither can we stay with them. With my mother-in-law I was in a similar situation and for years we struggled with each other. I loved her a lot and even she did, but some of our ways were so conflicting that it would strain our relationship, and also feel so bitter about each other. But at the same time, we never left each other and stayed under one roof. She is no more now, and sometimes I miss her so terribly that I feel like going to heaven and hugging her.

Love can get really complicated at times, the feeling is there but the ways of each other can be beyond tolerance level, then what would you do in such a case, leave the person or be with them and compromise on your ways?

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