Marriage indeed isn't meant for people that are only in love with each other. But, for people who are crazy enough to work and fight yoghurt for their relationship to work. My friend who is married now, had her wedding day extended by a year, because the Church Marriage Council thought they both weren't ready for marriage. Because they weren't on the same page a you many things, they were only 'inlove' with each other(which seemed to be fading away with discoveries of personality differences).
They spent the extra year under intense counselling, studying and marriage workshops.
They've been married for two years now with a son, understand each other better and are happy.
We are taking our time to build our relationship since we know that, marriage is forever.
Thanks for sharing this @sochul, just what we needed today.
@adedoyinwealth You are a really nice person.
Marriage without thorough preparation is not happiness but disaster.
Your wise friend made a wonderful decision and seems to have a really successful marriage.
Many men and women seem to marry only the power of love.
I hope there will not be many failures because I have no serious thoughts about marriage.
But ... I thought that marriage is wonderful, so I posted it today.
I hope that more people will have a happier marriage
Put my heart to your wonderful comments
Thank You very much for your kind complement nim. I'm happy for you that you are enjoying your marriage. Congrats!.
I'd sure let you know when we pick a date for our wedding.
Best regards from,
Adedoyin Wealth.