@big.mama I am WITH you. Can't have blue cats, must have gender appropriate names.. what is happening to the world!?! Why are we dumbing down our babies by restricting what is age appropriate and dictating their imagination? I get everything you're saying and totally respect you going above and beyond to raise your babies in such an open-minded way! Going to get some of these books for my niece. Can't wait for your reviews! Thank you for sharing this.