This is an excellent #nocomfortzone post! Kudos to you for opening up to the challenge so beautifully! You have certainly exposed one of the most frustrating double-standards for women, that we are often branded as a "slut" — for being human! — by daring to broach the topic of sexuality.

Strict religious upbringing teaches us to have shame for our bodies and makes us dysfunctional creatures. That makes understanding of our own selves more difficult; and how can we expect a man to know what we need/want if we, ourselves, don't understand or know it...?!?!?

It is only by breaking the paradigms others impose on us and being true to ourselves that happiness can be attained — not only regarding sexuality, but in other areas of life as well.

BRAVO for a well-written and well-executed response to the challenge, and I thank you for participating and sharing a bit more of your beautiful soul with us!