RE: Zen reflections on NVC, hearing without judging
Hey - very worthwhile comment IMHO!
I hope I was being descriptive, that was the intention and I agree that being honest is better, even if anger does arise. I think I'm lucky in that being honest, anger isn't my particular flare, it's more sloth and agitation/ anxiety.
I agree with the intention- but if you're mindful to be careful of your intention, you're probably going to be in a state to choose the right words!
Having said that you've just made me think whether 'choice' of words is more of an issue if someone is trying to manipulate/ control someone else rather than help them, I think it probably is - I imagine there's a lot more talking involved in control rather than in helping people.
Just a hunch, now my brains off on another tangent, save that for later.
Thanks for the comment, appreciated!
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I feel this to be true as well, thanks for the tokens!