When people behave fake with you

When someone does not like you but still try to show that they do then you can instantly figure that out, that fake smile and fake actions will give you the vibe of unfriendliness. There are some people who always try to put that extra effort in convincing you that they like you, but body language is not aligned and it speaks everything about the thoughts of the person. Probably they are trying to show that they are nice to you because you are of some use to them.

I have experienced this a couple of times, certain people when they have some work from me to be done, they will be extremely sugar coated but after that will completely disappear or just give a cold shoulder. There are some people when they are alone they are super nice, but when they have other people around they will behave as if I do not exist in that room. It is fine for me, not everyone is supposed to like me. Why should they? In return, I just take a step back from such people and draw my boundaries for future interactions. I do not entertain them much if they again come back to me.

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I cannot stand fakeness, so I believe that if someone does not like me for whatever reasons, it is ok for me to disconnect from them, then no matter whoever they are. I have no intention to impress anyone, my actions are straight, if you do not like me it is your problem and not mine. I have a cousin, who is always behaving this way. Because she is a part of the family I keep compromising, every time she has some work from me, she is super nice, but I can still figure out the fakeness on her face and as soon as the work is done, she will distance out and behave as if she barely knows me. Previously it would hurt me a lot, because I would flow in my emotions thinking why does she always do this. She was very dear to me at one point of time, but slowly gradually I got a control on my emotions and understood her behavior patterns. After that I have chosen to maintain my distance with her. If she has some work and comes to me, I very politely refuse to do it.

Fakeness cannot be hidden, you can instantly make out, who is genuine with you and who is not. It is not that people have to be present in our lives all the time. A lot of people will show up situationally, which is good, but some times even when they are not around, you can hear and feel their actions and emotions, which makes you understand their feelings towards you.

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