I understand what you're saying although I never consciously thought of it before. Sometimes I don't want others to know if something is wrong with me so I don't open up because I don't want people to feel pity for me, but it does feel different and better to accept compassion from others.
I feel like compassion is rarely ever taken the wrong way. It doesn't have the need for recognition or feedback that comes with pity. There's no need to brag when you do a good thing. It's just what feels right. Thanks for stopping by @isaria! <3