Time Is A Healer of all Pain

in #philosophy8 years ago

Time recuperates all pain, isn't that so?

What feels like false expectation may really have some logical clarification with respect to why our brains influence us to see things distinctively all through time.Memory is encoded in various courses, from tactile to here and now to long haul.

While current occasions may wait in our fleeting recollections for a couple of months, they inevitably advance toward long haul recollections or we overlook them. What makes it fascinating is the procedure of how this happens.

There might different reasons why time is pivotal to our observations. There are distinctive sorts of recollections, including semantic, long winded and flashbulb. While they are for the most part extraordinary, they all make them thing in like manner: They are generally reconstructive.

That implies that our brains continually remake how we recall our encounters, and in this way, we recollect forget things precisely as they come to pass. Envision an occasion — whether it was an excursion, a gathering or a relationship — that happened at one point in your life. You most likely recall it happening a specific way.

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Following a couple of days passed, or perhaps seven days, be that as it may, something happened. You may discuss the gathering with a companion who at that point discloses to you something he or she saw about the occasion, and all of a sudden, your memory of it shifts. All of a sudden, the way you review this occasion changes. You have acquired new data that specifically changes your past discernment. You never again think the way you used to. You have developed another memory.

Consider memory bookshelves that are continually being arranged, masterminded and supplanted by more up to date books. The occasion that progressions your recognition may not be as sensational. Perhaps it was a fellowship that never again exists or an adjustment in your environment. It is normal for our recollections to blur after some time, we recreate the greater part of our recollections, regardless of the possibility that we don't acquire new data.

That being stated, not all recreations are negative. Time gives us the capacity to acknowledge connections and kinships we've had for quite a while. We can wait in our recollections and separate the great from the awful, the commendable from the unfit, and the transient fun from the long haul bliss.

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I agree. But the process is really slow and time consuming :(

Why do you say that?

Very true! Nice post.

Awesome post, time dilutes bad memories, you're spot on!

Excellent and also spot on ;) Time alone cannot dilute bad memories, it's what one does with that time, and like you said, almost a retraining of the mind with new data coming in all the time. I did exactly what that young lady did in The Journey Ahead. My brother committed suicide and I kept myself frantically busy, could not understand why he did that and asking myself could I have stopped it. In fact made myself ill in my running away. My thyroid went haywire, had surgery but the overnight drop from overactive to zero thyroid function caused a clinical depression. Don't want to bore you with the details, but the point I'm making is don't run away from bad memories, rather face it, we have to get on with the job of living, things can never be the same as before but we must allow new experiences and new joy into our lives :) Thank you for pointing me to that article!

Well said! I am glad you were able to turn something so tragic into a positive energy and emotion. Most people live their whole lives unable to attempt, let alone master this feat.

You have pointed out that we should temper our thoughts, decisions and especially our emotions of the moment; with the strong possibility that acquired new data may alter our perspective. Thank you for this thoughtful post.

Intense exercise that involves risk is great for relaxing certain areas of the brain I believe. I realized this when I went on this really dangerous hike. 😀 😃 😄 😁 😆 I hope you have a WONDERFUL day!

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Although it is often said that time heals the wounds, the truth is that you need to help him. If we want to be happy and smile again, we must work on it ourselves.

Working on our self is always the first step to recovery , well said

Thank you my dear ;))

It's slow but its always helping, time is everything.