Society conditions us how to live. We create the aggregate way of life in society. Catch 22. But it's still the individual that is the root. Healing needs to be done, then society can heal and stop conditioning/influencing further individuals to perpetuate wrong/falsity into existence. What we do is our fault, we are responsible, regardless of influence and conditioning to do it. Society isn't a person that can change it's behavior, but an aggregation of all our behavior. The children are indeed the best way to change things into the future, they are the future.