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RE: Not as strong
Take this less as a woman/men topic, and more just a realization that I'm not equal to a guy no matter what I do. I'm a weak ass girl through and through. The guys I was with on Halloween at a party were using my sword to attack trees in the backyard and I thought I could do the same thing, but nope. I failed hard.
Your point about the things we have no practice with, we don't do well was well put, like the bush in the city. Not your sphere or experience. Looking back I had no reasonable expectation to do swing a sword with any skill, but figured I could do what they were doing. I mean, I'm strong. Nope. Not that strong.
It was humbling.
it's humbling when you realize you dont do a thing as you expected and much more if there are other persons close.
Those situations brokes our "ego" but i think its just a thing of adjust our expectations about ourselfs in that topic.
And you are not a weak ass girl it's just you dont work cutting trees and althought i dont know you weight is 40-50 kg less than those guys.
So those guys with another men who weight 50kg more than them will feel are not so strong... of course taking into account all persons works out in the same way.
So i just feel bad if i dont do all i can do in a topic knowing my limits, by example... i'm not going to be the stronger men in the world (there's always other stronger than you and more smart, and such...) i just need to be the maxium strong as i can and when i cant go gym as often as i can it makes me feel bad.
And i only measure things when i have a little idea, ability of be able to progress, of course if i go to the space as astronaut nowadays... you can guess my work there could sucks as much as you cutting trees :-)