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RE: Opposites Attract: A Romantic Reality or Just a Romantic Idea?

in #psychology7 years ago

I'd rather have some one to sit quietly with than some one who's talking while I'm trying to think. But if they are talking about what I'm thinking in more articulated manner then that's a great help too, thanks. Then they'd want me to listen what they have to say, which is cool but, not when I am thinking.

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I think I will disagree with you a little. Most Ladies if not all love talking and having someone to listen to them. And it's their partners duty to listen to them at all times even if it's a distraction to them at that moment. A good listening ear is one great quality every woman demands from her partner. So if your partner is talking and you are thinking just simply nod and agree to whatever she says because every silence you give her produces more talk and questions. So the faster you attend to her, the faster you go back to your thinking. This is just my opinion anyway.

Disagree away. Conversation is very important element in any relationship. But have you talked to people recently? it's like a sitcom out there. Just because the room is quiet and and I am thinking doesn't mean it is a turn to talk or change conversation topic. It just means I am thinking. I am not bored in fact I am highly stimulated just stop the standup comedy please. right?

LOL, interesting way to go about it ;)

There is time for talking about things, and time for thinking;) No need to always be talking :)