I think I will disagree with you a little. Most Ladies if not all love talking and having someone to listen to them. And it's their partners duty to listen to them at all times even if it's a distraction to them at that moment. A good listening ear is one great quality every woman demands from her partner. So if your partner is talking and you are thinking just simply nod and agree to whatever she says because every silence you give her produces more talk and questions. So the faster you attend to her, the faster you go back to your thinking. This is just my opinion anyway.