I enjoyed your presentation, and you are correct, you must let go of the past mistakes and the wrongs done against you, because that is the only way you can move forward, but I want to state that coming to love yourself if a process, and one that happens when you realize that there is a God in heaven who loves you, and He believes that you are very valuable; if you ever wonder why you are here, and what your purpose is in life, ask the Lord, with a sincere heart, and He will reveal Himself to you; once you know the love of Jesus Christ, loving yourself comes naturally, and you will be able to love others as He loves them. selflessly and with His whole heart!