I think it comes down to paying attention to nuances and context, and trying to see things from another person's perspective instead of focusing on our own objective - which is a skill we all need to learn anyway.

That's very insightful, we tend to focus so much on what we want that we lose all empathy.

Thank you as well for being open and sharing your perspective on this. We live difficult times, we all want to be loved but have a difficult time loving others.

While patriarchy and feminism clash against one another, empathy and understanding get thrown into a shadowy corner and we become at odds with ourselves.

Men and women doubting if they are real men and women or if they should destroy these ideas once and for all. But we'll come around I hope. As long as we listen instead of imposing, we'll learn the way to bring balance about.