You have well described some real issues, some that I have been guilty of committing in my time. It is good that you write about your experiences here - some might see themselves through your eyes & see how foolish we are at times. However, I suspect that the biggest offenders are too blind to see it even then. I hope you do find that role model you are looking for - some are still out there!
Thank you @jdkennedy. The dynamics between male and female these days seems so far from what healthy masculinity and femininity is intended to be. I do think there are people out there who are living it right, and I do have hope that many can grow in to what we are meant to be. 🌱