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RE: Real Talk #2 - The Pain Of Loving A Toxic Parent

in #realtalk6 years ago

Can we have the inverse of this article, please? Traits of healthy parents who enrich their children's lives?

I went through all of this and more and let me tell you kids out there: your life is going to be a million times better once you have your own place and steady income. I never thought I would experience this much freedom. I just felt trapped and hopeless. But you just have to keep swimming until you're free.

I feel that my friends are more family than my real family.

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I'm sorry you had to face such horribly scenarios, but like you said, it gets better eventually when you are on your own. That's what I've been trying to do: become independent so I can raise my voice and no longer have to tolerate the irrational behavior of my parents.

Glad you're doing a lot better now. You are an example that things can change if you work on them. I remember reading a quote somewhere that said "Family isn't who you live with, it's who you die for" and I think that perfectly describes your relationship with your friends.

Maybe I will make an inverse version of this article in the near future. Thanks for dropping by!