I am just beginning to read your article, upvoted first because I know I will hang on every one of your words (although it's clear I have no voting power) and I come to this, *... there have to be witnesses. We must all be nurses to each other and be willing to bear the pain." JUST TWO MINUTES BEFORE I WROTE YOU A RESPONSE OF HOW WE NEED A WITNESS! All caps because once again we're on the same line and I still feel it amazing :)