definitely if i am obliged to choose, i will choose ' FOR'..
...the reasons why...
....1....you have to know the person next to you,you have to know what makes him/her happy,what makes him/her sad....what is annoying for him/her etc..in order to know all these details you need to spend time together...lots of time...

...2...you don't marry somebody you just fell in love with.....you can fell in love with somebody from the first date but this doesn't give you any guarantees that if you marry him/her you will live a happy life....so stay with the person...spend time together to know him/her better and read 'reason 1 ' ...

...3....the old couple on the image says 'in their days' when something was broken they tried to fix it....true and this can work...it can truly work....i mean in a marriage both sides have to work hard to keep it going...but...there is a big but... this doesn't mean that what they did those days was the right thing to do...and keep in mind that its another thing to work together in order to have a successful marriage and another thing to tolerate bad behaviors because you cannot do otherwise,afraid of what the people around you is going to say if you break up ...most of the times those days this is exactly what was happening!!!!...so if you don't want to experience something like that read 'reason 1'....

...thank you!!!!