Contest Alert:Who will be my next of kin?

in Steem For Lifestyle19 hours ago

Hello Everyone.

Am @meehu.
From Pakistan🇵🇰.
Today, am here to take part in this contest organized by my friend @okere-blessing.
So let's see what my friend asked today?

“What do you understand as next of kin ?.”

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Legally speaking, next kin are those people who help you in everything you do, that is, in property issues, in blood relations, they are equal partners in everything you do. They are also the first to work on your happiness and everything you have is involved with them. So next kin are those whom you do not choose, but they are a part of your life even if you do not want them.But on the other hand, if you look at it from the other side, I would also like to ask for this thing better: relatives are not those who are connected to you in your joys and sorrows or by blood relation. I was talking about the legal thing here, but if we talk about it emotionally, then these can also be those people whom you choose, that is, your husband or your wife or your friends who are equal partners with you. There are some provisions that your close people betray you and you do not understand what you should do. Therefore, I understand this thing that next kin are those who should treat you well.

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“Do you think it's important to have next of kin or to eat everything when you are alive ?.”

I think this idea is not good at all that if you think that your next of kin is also alive, then you eat and drink with him and after that enjoy life and after that you forget about the bad times. Always remember that life is not always the same and also remember that you can earn money only in your youth or in good times. When times are bad or big money or a good bank balance is needed that can bear all your expenses and can give you a smile and old age. Therefore, saying that I have not enjoyed it yet, I had buried all the money will be completely wrong. This is a good thing about life, but it is our responsibility to think about the future too. If we act carelessly today, then tomorrow we will have to sit and cry and this is also not wise. When you are making a decision, your decision should be wise and not that of fools who will hurt you tomorrow.

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“Are there criteria of choosing next of kin? Discuss in detail..”

Well, everyone has some rules for living their life, similarly I also have some rules for living my life and when I made them part of my life, I felt that my life was much better. You choose the next of kin yourself. I know this very well, but I cannot completely ignore the fact that when a person chooses a someone in their life, they places a lot of hope on him. He thinks that the person will do as I say and he will live in this way and in this way. So his desires become a tree which starts withering when the time comes when that person does not act according to his desires. But what is being discussed here is that criteria. Every person must have some criteria. I do not have any criteria, but I would definitely want that person to be a good person, loyal and someone who take care of everyone.Because the most important thing is for a person's heart to be beautiful. The beauty of your face also matters. I will not ignore this. I am talking about the fact that it is very important for your heart to be beautiful. If you are absolutely beautiful from inside you are gorgeous from outside.

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“On what ground should next of kin be changed?.”

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Just as the world is full of different types of people, each person is different and has a different background, similarly, relationships are also different in every way, and relationships are also like that.I always compare everyone in the family to flowers. I always say that just as some bunches of different flowers look beautiful, similarly, a family is also a beautiful bouquet of different flowers, each with a different color and a different scent. Therefore, to say that our next of kin should changed, for me its wrong. I am completely against the idea (changed). Every person is born with their own nature. They have a unique personality. When you ask them to change, you insult them, and I don't like this. Yes, if someone has feelings of hatred for you in their heart and you want them to change, then you have to work hard yourself. You have to spend time with them. You have to see what they hate. You have to develop a loving relationship with them so that hatred does not grow in a loving relationship.

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