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Do you believe that husband and wife should share bills, housework and responsibilities 50/50? Why or why not?

I believe this but not in everyone. According to the wishes of people, husband and wife do some work due to the similarity of mind. The husband will help his wife in work and the wife will help her husband but I think it is natural. But according to their wishes. However, in our area or urban areas, husband and wife responsibilities are not divided fifty-fifty. That is because we are women. Wives always stay at home. And they work according to their own wishes. When a man goes out for work. Now they cannot work on their own will and freedom. The permission of the person they are involved in and the complete work of his responsibilities is required. It is an extra hassle for a man to cry. He will come home after finishing work and rest.

In your opinion, does "equal" always mean "fair" in marriage? Explain.

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In my opinion, equal does not always mean fair. As I said before, men feel tired after working outside, but women never work too hard.
What they do is inside the house and independently. However, there are some men who always help their wives with their work. However, it falls within the rules and regulations. However, it is not always fair. The reason is that when a man returns home tired after working too much. Then he has no mood to work. So he prefers to relax and rest. Then some wives try to make their husbands do the work. Which I never think is fair.

If one partner earns more money or his job is more busy, should the other take on more housework?

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If ever one partner earns more money or is more busy with his job. Then of course the other should complete the housework. For example, cooking properly. Washing clothes. He will return home after working hard. Giving him food at the right time. And taking care of him. All in all, if both of them focus on both sides. And work properly. In that family, there will never be quarrels and dirt between husband and wife. The reason is that I think my husband is a job holder. When he returns home from work. Now he is under a lot of work and pressure. So I understand that the man feels very tired after working. So for him, I arrange bath water, food properly. And I give him food at the right time. After eating food, he takes rest. After a while, he is happy. And sometimes helps me in my work. So I think if a job holder is busy with his job, then the housework should be done completely by someone else.

What are some practical ways couples can maintain a balance of responsibilities without being pressured or unfair?

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Some practical ways couples can maintain a balance of responsibilities without being pressured or unfair are: When the husband is very sick, it is the wife's responsibility to make him well. And if the wife is sick, it is the husband's responsibility to make him well. At that time, there are some tasks that have to be done helplessly. In that case, the friendship between husband and wife is unbreakable. Even if there is no pressure at that time, they both help each other in their work. Another thing is those whose families have children. In that family, the husband does various types of work without any pressure on the wife's work. I am mentioning mine here. After I had a child, my husband helps me a lot in my work without any pressure and other people's behavior. Moreover, having a common mind is the most important. Then their love and interest in helping will increase.

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