Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 105: Things I Can't Do For Love

This is an interesting contest where everyone will love to participate because it's a thing that concern living things including a human and animals

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What do you understand by the word Love?

Love is the emotional attachment we have for a person or things, so that they can make us happy when they accept our offer. Developing attraction or affection toward someone is necessary because it's a natural thing that men and women need to help them stay better in this life. The love I am talking about differs from love for food, as well as love for both parents who bore us.

The love I am talking about is the strongest connection that can only be found among two spouses who love each other. Love can sometimes be positive or negative, so a person who woos someone must expect either of the two. Love makes someone love themselves so much that all their goals can be achieved together.

Have you ever loved anybody, if yes why?

I was born to love; I have loved someone I cherish so much. The reason why I prefer this young lady is that I value her beauty as well as her good shape, which turns my mind positively toward her. I met her in the pharmacy shop where I was training under someone. Ever since I set my eyes on her, she has been disturbing my mind. I met her in a good condition that allowed me to express my feelings to her freely without stressing me.

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Although she did not accept my offer at first, she is one of the perfect women that are so kind to choose as a love partner. She is an easygoing lady with a strong ambition to pursue her education after finishing secondary school. When I realized that she has a passion for furthering her studies, I chose to be a good man who supports a lady with a brighter future.

What are the lines you will never cross for the sake of love?

No matter the love I have for a person, if I notice that one of my friends is dating such an individual, I will never have any interactions with that person that would make me develop feelings for her. There are some cases where two male friends will fight each other to win the affection of a beautiful lady; however, I can never do that. In fact, I will encourage my friend to pursue her once we understand each other.

Another thing I can never do is spend too much money on her because I prefer to invest that money in something that will benefit me. I have seen a scenario where a man sponsors a lady he loves to school, and in the end, that lady dumps him and follows another man. That is the kind of experience that teaches us to spend within our means, and we must not go beyond that.

How best do you think love for others can be expressed without hurting other people's feelings.

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We need to speak with kindness to someone we love, and this is necessary in any relationship so that it can be considered a sense of belonging. We should avoid foul language that can scatter the relationship we have been building for a long time.

We should respect their opinion as well as be honest with them in such a way that they will value us. We should not blame them for their mistakes because everyone is not perfect; rather, we should speak to them in a good manner to the extent that it doesn't affect their perspective.

Additionally, it's also important to have enough time to discuss what your lover is experiencing because addressing this issue at the right time will help find solutions to the things that hurt her.

I would like to invite @josepha, @ruthjoe and @dove11 to join me in this contest.