Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 100: Can you Remember?

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Hello Everyone.

Am @meehu.
From Pakistan🇵🇰.

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“Can you remember that one person you were angry with? What happened?.”

Talking about childhood, childhood is full of such memories. Whether you are in school or college, you make friends who are close to you, but they are not able to keep secrets. And that age is such that it seems like Gossip is everything. Today we are someone's friends, tomorrow we are not anyone's friends. Today the one who has a good lunch is my friend or today the one who spoke nicely to me is my friend. Today he got angry with me, so today he is not my friend. There is no age that you can't include everyone.As far as I can remember, I have never held a grudge against anyone for so long. I had changed myself a long time ago and I have forgiven everyone from the bottom of my heart. Although there were some people in my life who were very difficult for me to forgive, I will not say that I am still angry with them. But I would like to share an incident here. I had a friend and she was very close to me. She used to support me in my relationship. But when she felt that my boyfriend was very attached to me, she became jealous of me and stole my boyfriend from me. So I am not angry with her. But at that time, that boy was very important to me, but she took that boy away from me. I will say that I have forgiven her, not that I am angry with her, but it was done by her and the gesture was quite shameless.

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“Can you remember the last time your parents flogged or yelled at you? What did you do wrong? Was yelling the best way?.”

I feel very ashamed to tell this because now I have grown up and whenever I remember the story, I laugh a lot because my sister often reminds me of this and laughs. I remember that when I was little, I was quite a naughty because I had two sisters younger than me at home .

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My habit was very bad. I always used to beat them and whenever we started playing, I would fight with them. One day, I hit my sister so hard that she lost her breath. She could not breathe and she was in a very bad condition. So instead of being afraid, I was still looking at her angrily, saying, "What are you doing?Is it drama? " My father got very angry with me for this. He was sitting ironing at that time. He picked her up because of that. And if she comes towards me, he said, "Today I will burn your hands with this iron because you use to beat them. Don't you think this is wrong? They are your younger siblings. You should love them the same way we love you.I was really got scared because my father had never done this before but it was probably because he had been tolerating my evil behavior for a long time and now he couldn't bear it anymore but my sister got better after some time but after that I started crying a lot I was scared what was happening to me after that I got so scared that I stopped hitting my sisters well now I have a very good bond with my sisters so now we often talk about what is happening then she definitely embarrasses me by saying what happened to you once when you used to hit us.

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“Can you remember embarrassing yourself in public? How did you get over with the embarrassment?.”

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As I said before, I was a very naughty girl and naughty people spoil themselves every day. I spoiled myself every day.when I was little, I didn't have such a big self-respect or ego that I could say that I had taken it to heart. But that day, when my father did this to me, I was very scared and after that, I felt very ashamed. But now, when I sit with my sisters and they tell someone about this, I feel very ashamed and the smile I have at that time suddenly becomes artificial because I know that my father is a very kind-hearted person and he is full of love and patience. He has never behaved like this with anyone. Why is he always behaving like this? But that day, when he behaved like this, it meant that I had really done something very bad. I understood that this was It would be better to stop time, it would be better to change the habit, before I was told today, what would I do if my hands were actually burned tomorrow? Yes, it's sounds quite funny now because my father doesn't get angry enough to burn my hands, but his saying this was enough for me.

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“Can you remember having a good past life or your past life was just bad?.”

To be honest, I treasured all those moments of my childhood because my childhood was very beautiful. I always remember my childhood. It was a time when you didn't have any worries about the world, or even food, or work, or rent, or anything else. You just had to play. At most, if there was stress about anything, it was about studies and the pressure to get good marks.

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There is also a reason why I have spent my childhood with open arms. I have spent every day of my childhood beautifully. I have many friends and I had some or the other friend in every class. I was a girl playing in my street and she was always happy with herself. I also enjoyed it with my siblings, but I often fought with them, but i have good friends. Where I live, girls are not able to cycle when they grow up in my country . people do not even let their daughters ride bicycles. But my father taught me a great way to live life. He said, "Do whatever you want to do." In my childhood, I did so much activities and cycling that I can't tell you. But then when my father passed away, all these things became distant. But somewhere or other, there is that part of my childhood where my father was present. I live my life happily woth no regret.

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