Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 98: "My voice, My story"

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Hello Everyone.

Am @meehu.
From Pakistan🇵🇰.

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“Share one or two life experiences that shaped who you are today?.”

It was about three years ago that I decided to enroll in Bible Seminary.I wanted to learn for myself, I wanted to gather a lot of knowledge for myself, but I felt that I was too shy. When I took admission there, I saw people there who were very open-minded open-hearted and were talking to each other a lot, they were relaxed and had a beautiful bond of friendship . I observed myself in few days and then I started realizing that I was making myself feel alone. It was not that the people around me made me feel alone, but I used to feel alone with myself. I felt that all of them were not my friends, but there were my friends who continously trying to make me happy and tried to help me. They tried to make me friends with them. I could not eat food with them because I always did like to eat food at my own house. I felt that I could not eat food at someone else's house and then I used to sit quietly during lunch. Then slowly they motivated me that you have to eat food with us and Then I started having lunch with him and my friendship with him became good. Then I thought,Then I thought that if I remain shy and cannot connect with people, I will be left far behind. I will not have any circle of friends and it will be much more difficult for me to study here for three years. But then, whenever I make friends with them, I realize how beautiful friendship is.

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“If your life were a book, what would be the title and why?.”

If my life were a book, I would definitely not call it "Keep moving forward, there is nothing behind" because I have always seen that every person who keeps moving forward and keeps himself separate from others lives a better life. This does not mean that you should not have a circle of friends, you should not have any friends. It is not that you should avoid toxic people who are bad for you.Because I have seen that as long as I am stuck in my past, I cannot move forward and those things will continue to hurt me and those things that are, over time, that wound got worse and worse and I stopped thinking about moving forward. But when I started looking ahead and through those conversations, I removed the people who were being bad for me from my life by saying that I am not doing anything for them.i feel better.

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“Share a memory that keeps you smiling..”

There are many times in my life when I felt happy and I cannot forget those moments.This is your positive energy. When you try to be happy, nothing remains from you and everything that comes from you gives you happiness. But when you keep remembering your bad times and remembering bad things, everything that comes from you provides you only bad things. So, the best way to live life is to be happy. Last year when I planned to go on a trip with my whole group, it was a great opportunity. All of us kids had never gone on a trip alone before, but it was so beautiful when we spent time together.We spent the whole day together, eating at a restaurant, then we went in the park, we took a lot of pictures, and we wanted that day never to be end. Even though it was a very hot summer day, it was very hot that day, but we didn't mind the heat that day. Even today, when I think about that occasion, my face suddenly lights up with joy and I feel happy and the smile appear on my face was amazing.

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“If you were a superhero, which superhero would suit your personality and why?.”

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I remember when I was little, there was a drama on TV called "Sonpari". It had a fairy story in it and that fairy seemed very beautiful to me. I thought that one day I would also become a fairy. I even kept her costume at my house because she could do anything. She changed everything. She was a very good woman. I always tried to copy her and in the process of trying, I sometimes even jumped off the stairs and made myself fly because I thought that I could fly like her.I won't say that I like her personality even when she suits mine because I'm talking about a fairy here and it's not easy to like a fairy, but I will definitely highlight that I found her beautiful because she was very beautiful and secondly, I liked her style a lot and she helped others, so I also want to do that.So, because of her personality, I used to help others and support everyone. I also wanted to be a fairy.And I want to be that fairy who, in a single day, solves all her problems and her heart isn't broken the way mine is.

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Your story is so deeply moving. thank you for sharing your heart with such honesty. I could feel every moment, from the quiet lunches to the warmth of finally finding connection. I especially love how you pointed out that it wasn't others who made you feel alone, but that sometimes we create that space ourselves unknowingly. That realization takes so much maturity and self-awareness.

Your journey of slowly stepping out of your shell, embracing friendship, and letting go of pain is inspiring. And the memory of your summer trip made me smile, too. It's those little, joy-filled moments that stay with us the longest.

Also, your choice of "Sonpari" as your superhero is so nostalgic and beautiful, the desire to heal others while quietly wishing someone could do the same for you... that touched me deeply. You’re already someone’s fairy, just by being you.